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The Governess

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The Governess
Rebecca Solomon, public domain, via Wikimedia Commons
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Her trap was her education. A middle-class girl was raised to be a 'lady' — accomplished in music, French, and drawing — but if her family lost its money, she had exactly one respectable way to earn a living: teaching other people's children. The factory and the shop were deemed too lowly for a gentlewoman. So she moved into a stranger's house to raise their daughters, and discovered she belonged nowhere in it: not family, not servant, she ate apart and sat apart, a lady on wages.

The wages were miserable because the supply of desperate gentlewomen was endless. A resident governess might earn £20 a year — Charlotte Brontë's salary, with £4 deducted for her washing — while £35 to £80 was more usual even in wealthy houses; an 1843 Punch advertisement demanded French, music, singing, dancing, and drawing for £2 a month. The Governesses' Benevolent Institution, founded in 1843, offered annuities to the aged and a registry for the jobless, and Queen's College, London, opened in 1848 to give governesses real qualifications.

Artists and novelists made her the age's great symbol of the woman alone. Richard Redgrave's The Governess of 1844 shows her sunk in shadow with a black-edged letter while her charges play in sunlight — Redgrave's own sister Jane had been a governess and died young. Rebecca Solomon's The Governess of 1851 studies the same isolation, and Jane Eyre (1847) turned the figure into literature's most famous heroine. The schoolroom she ruled was small, but it taught England that educated women could work — and be ladies still.

Frequently asked

Why did women become governesses in Victorian England?

A middle-class girl educated as a 'lady' but left without money had one respectable option: teaching other people's children. Factory or shop work was deemed too lowly for a gentlewoman.

How much did a Victorian governess earn?

Typically £20 to £80 a year — Charlotte Brontë earned £20, minus £4 for washing — and an 1843 Punch advertisement offered just £2 a month for French, music, singing, dancing, and drawing.

What does Rebecca Solomon's The Governess show?

Painted in 1851 and exhibited at the Royal Academy in 1854, it shows the governess seated with her young charge in modest dress — her averted gaze toward the family's happy domesticity symbolizing the family life she serves but cannot have.

Why it matters today

The live-in tutor and the professional nanny are the governess's modern heirs — minus the social limbo.

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